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What To Do When Every Thing Is Going Against You

Everything is going against you, nothing is going well or how you would like it to.  

You have been there, we all have at some point. It gets so bad that you ask yourself the question, “why is this happening to me?”.

It always seems to happen when you least want it to and you can find yourself feeling overwhelmed, sad and disheartened.

I call these moments A Divine Storm. A Divine Storm is a powerful opportunity to grow, you could call it a wake up call.

In nature a storm is not the end of the world but it will clear the air allow pressure to level out and then calmness and sunshine will follow.

This is the same for us, it is not the end but yet clearing space for the next great opportunity. 

Unfortunately we can often take the wrong view of what is taking place. We hang on to how it was before, fear how it could be due to the current circumstance and we tend to slip into assuming the worst instead of preparing for great things to come. 

The fact is when ever you go through a difficult time, pain or a crisis there is always and I mean always a breakthrough on the other side. 

Once you have had the breakthrough, there is the new awareness, the ‘aha moment’ when you realise that everything that has taken place was meant to and you have been on the right course all along. 

We need not to worry or to assume the worst yet have faith in that the best is still yet to come.

 When we step out of our comfort zone, into the unknown and things don’t go as we had originally intended we can think of pending failure or our life falling apart.

Or we can choose to believe that when ‘life is falling apart’, it is not over but simply energy is moving, changing and shifting to reflect the outcomes that will be better for us in the long run. 

We need to not fear the changes and be disheartened and the disappointments yet embrace them as it a sign of better things to come.

Take the view that you are being prepared, prepared for greater things.

At first it won’t make sense BUT soon you will know why things had to be the way they are. 

Until then assume the best and make it happen.

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